Are We Raising Leaders or Spoiled Kids?

Are We Raising Leaders?

We want the best for our kids, but are we making them too comfortable? Walk into any fancy school today—shiny buildings, air-conditioned classrooms, luxury buses, and high-tech gadgets everywhere. From their ride to school to their lunch break, everything is easy, clean, and comfortable. But is this really preparing them for life?

These kids will grow up to be our leaders—MLAs, MPs, officers, and decision-makers. In 15–20 years, they’ll run our country. So, we need to ask: Will they understand the struggles of ordinary Indians?

Far from the Real World

Many of these kids have never:

• Waited in a long line for food, medicine, or a temple visit.
• Walked a muddy road to get to school.
• Taken a crowded public bus or train.
• Carried heavy water cans or cooked a simple meal.
• Dealt with heat, dust, or rain without AC.

Even when they visit temples, they use VIP lanes—no waiting, no effort. The hard work, patience, and struggles that most Indians face every day? These kids don’t know them. They live in a bubble, far from the real India.

Too Much Comfort, Too Little Strength

We’re not saying comfort is bad. Every parent wants their child to have a good life. But too much comfort without struggle makes kids weak. They might be smart in school, but can they handle tough times? They might have big degrees, but do they have the heart to help others? They might have everything, but do they understand people who have nothing?

If we keep protecting them from every difficulty, we’re raising kids who feel entitled, not kids who can lead. On X, people are already talking about this: “Kids cry over slow Wi-Fi but can’t handle a day without AC. How will they run India?” It’s a warning we can’t ignore.

Teach Them to Be Tough

We need to think big. Every school—rich or poor, city or village—should have mandatory training to build strength and character. Not to punish kids, but to prepare them. They should:

• Wake up early and do physical work, like cleaning or gardening.
• Help others, like serving food to the needy or teaching younger kids.
• Spend time without AC, maybe in a village or on public transport.
• Solve real problems, like helping with water shortages or cleaning up local areas.
• Train their bodies and minds to be strong and patient.

This will teach them what life is like for most Indians. They’ll learn to respect hard work, understand struggle, and care about everyone—not just the rich.

What Critics Might Say

Some people might say, “Kids should enjoy their childhood!” or “School is for studying, not hard work.” But this isn’t about taking away fun or learning. It’s about balance. A kid who learns to face challenges will study better and grow stronger. A kid who helps others will understand India better than any book can teach.

Others might worry this is too hard to do in every school. But we already have programs like NCC, NSS, or Scouts that show it’s possible. With support from schools, parents, and the government, we can make it work for all kids.

Why This Matters

If we don’t act now, we’re setting up our kids—and our country—for trouble. India needs leaders who are strong, kind, and ready to serve. These kids aren’t just students; they’re our future leaders, protectors of our culture, and builders of a better India. We can’t let them grow up soft and out of touch.

Let’s stop giving them everything so easily. Let’s teach them to stand tall, work hard, and care for others.

What Can We Do?

It starts with us—parents, teachers, and citizens. Talk about this with your friends and family. Ask schools to add programs that teach kids to be tough and caring. Share stories on X about young people who work hard and help others. Push for changes that make our kids ready to lead, not just live comfortably.

India’s future depends on us. Let’s raise kids who can lead with strength, serve with heart, and build a proud, united nation.